My new wife and I went to a kids birthday party and I saw my dad who passed a few years ago. I pointed him out to her and introduced them then told him she was my wife and he asked, “when were you going to tell me?”
This dream likely represents a desire for a sense of approval and acceptance from your deceased father regarding significant life events, such as your new marriage. Seeing your dad at the birthday party and introducing him to your new wife might indicate a wish to share important moments and relationships with him, seeking his acknowledgment and approval even in his absence. The question he asks in the dream, "when were you going to tell me?" suggests a desire for your father's understanding and validation of your decisions. This dream may also reflect unresolved feelings or unexpressed emotions related to your relationship with your father and the need for closure or reconciliation.